25Apr
By: Neghar On: April 25, 2018 In: heart wisdom, Mindfulness, Mindset Comments: 0

An incomprehensive list of qualities I look for in the human beings with whom I surround myself, in no particular order: Encourage me to shine—to manifest my dreams, to breathe in every moment of joy and accept that with bliss there also comes struggle and conflict. Challenge me to...

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10Apr
By: Neghar On: April 10, 2018 In: heart wisdom, Mindfulness, Mindset Comments: 0

You’re allowed to have sucky days. Despite what the “good vibes only” crew would have you believe, sucky days are normal. They’re inevitable. And they’re your gatdamn right. You’re under no obligation to “power through” them or attempt to turn them around. Ignoring your feelings doesn’t make you a...

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21Mar
By: Neghar On: March 21, 2018 In: business, heart wisdom, Mindset Comments: 0

As a business coach and lightworker, confidence is a topic that comes up in my work pretty often. How do you cultivate it? Why do some people seem so much more confident than others? What is it that confident people have that those who lack confidence don’t? The way I...

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15Mar
By: Neghar On: March 15, 2018 In: heart wisdom, Mindset Comments: 1

I filed for divorce this month. I was about to add “finally,” but the truth is that these things take time, as I’m sure many of you know. There are papers to fill out, photos to tear, and drawers to empty. I’m starting to feel ready to talk about...

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15Feb
By: Neghar On: February 15, 2018 In: business, feminism, heart wisdom, Mindset Comments: 1

Authenticity is a topic that comes up often in my work. It’s highly relevant to our business, our relationships, and the way in which we show up in our everyday lives. I often get asked, “How do you learn how to show up authentically?” In formulating responses to this...

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10Feb
By: Neghar On: February 10, 2018 In: body image, feminism, heart wisdom Comments: 1

“Damn, your hair grows so fast,” he said. Close to 2 inches of silver this time. It’s been 7 weeks since my last visit. Orlando has been my colorist for the past few years. I first came to see him when I was dying my hair shades of purple,...

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01Feb
By: Neghar On: February 01, 2018 In: heart wisdom Comments: 0

When you’ve become accustomed to love feeling like loneliness—to crying into your pillow each night despite the warm body lying next to you—experiencing true connection can be unsettling, at first. You’ve bled yourself dry and forgotten how to receive; you’ve become so unfortunately familiar with misery that happiness seems...

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17Jan
By: Neghar On: January 17, 2018 In: Lifestyle, Mindfulness, Mindset, witchy things Comments: 7

Turn off the TV. Put down your phone. Pick up a book. A pen. A paintbrush. String words together and call it a poem. Slide playfully around the hardwood floor in your socks and call it dancing. Flip a record; listen with rapture as the needle circles the empty...

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12Jan
By: Neghar On: January 12, 2018 In: body image Comments: 3

Your bones. Your breath. Your body. Your business. Every inch from teeth to toenails—every wrinkle, every dimple, every curve, every scar, every detail—yours. Yours to live in with power. Yours to inhabit with love. Yours to adorn and express in any manner you deem necessary, in whichever way you desire....

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19Dec
By: Neghar On: December 19, 2017 In: Lifestyle, Mindset, witchy things Comments: 2

Misfit. Weirdo. Wild Woman. Witch. Some might perceive these labels as negative or undesirable, but I will take them, wholeheartedly and without an inkling of shame. I am not afraid to hold these monikers as my own, without fear—without a moments hesitation. I have always existed on the fringes...

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